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  • Chapter 2: I Was Born This Way

    It is quite common to hear the phrase “I was born this way” from gay people. The reason we say this is because being gay is something you are born with and is not a choice, just like your sex or skin color, and as such, it cannot be a sin, nor can it be something used as a reason for discrimination.

    Or perhaps it would be accurate to say that we have in our DNA and brain chemistry something that makes us attracted to people of the same sex rather than a different sex. Most of us don’t notice this at birth but instead at puberty when people first have the physical capability for sexual activity and most likely are hearing about it in sex education at school.

    But some children start noticing people of the same sex at the same time as most people start noticing the opposite sex. It is hard for me to describe, especially since I did not go through this type of experience during puberty. However, I know from the stories of other people that people don’t choose who they are attracted to.

    Given a choice people would always choose to be heterosexual because that is what society demands of them; heterosexual people have always been able to get married. No one has been murdered or bullied specifically for being straight because the majority are never criticized.

    I think that the only reason that gay people are so misunderstood is because we are a minority. The people who make laws about whether gay people are allowed to marry each other or whether they are even allowed to adopt children are decided by straight people who don’t know the experience of gay people.

    But I completely agree that people are born in a way that wires them to be gay. It also comes as a spectrum. Some people are interested in both men and women simultaneously. In that case, they would be called bisexual. I would even go so far as to say that most people are neither completely gay nor straight but that there are a lot more people who are bisexual or pansexual.

    But let me be very clear about something: being gay does not actually mean you are having sex with anyone. In fact, many people are married and have sex with their spouse, who is the opposite sex. Others are celibate because there are people of various religions who believe that same-sex activity is a sin. Therefore, these people attempt to conform to the way their religion and the broader society expect them to be.

    But just because a gay man marries a woman and has sex with her doesn’t mean he isn’t thinking about men while he is doing it. A gay woman can still marry and have sex with a man, but it is questionable whether she is enjoying it.

    However, I have personally been studying celibate gay Christians because the idea is fascinating. If someone believes they will go to hell for having gay sex, then they may avoid it their whole life. However, the process is never reversed. No heterosexual person believes that it is a sin for them to have sex. Therefore, they might wait till marriage, but they never avoid it the same way gay people are expected to.

    Even when heterosexual people have sex with multiple people who are not their spouses, the Christians don’t seem to judge them at all. Somehow, every sexual sin can be forgiven if you are at least doing it with the opposite sex, but if you are doing it with a member of the same sex, then all of a sudden, you are told that you must go to hell because you cannot inherit the kingdom of God (based on 1 Corinthians 6:9 in the Christian Bible).

    I am not here to tell you what you should do if you are a gay person. I just wanted to highlight some of the ways that we are not treated the same as straight people. It seems that most of it stems from religious teaching. There are people more qualified to speak from that perspective than I am.

    But as soon as society understands that people are not choosing to be gay, then it no longer makes sense to treat them like criminals, especially when they have not done anything about their feelings.

    Although being gay is not the same as being transgender, both things are similar in that the person did not wake up and decide to one day turn themselves into the opposite sex. In the case of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, and Asexual, all of them were literally born this way.

    That we are born this way is a fact that must be understood; otherwise, none of us would exist. We would choose to feel and be what the majority wants us to be so that they stop persecuting us about it.

    I was born this way, but really, I think we are this way before birth. I think we are conceived this way with the code that eventually gets run later in our lives.

  • Chapter 1: Building the Bridge

    The first step towards acceptance of the LGBTQIA community is to build the Rainbow Bridge. There are two main sides to the debate over equal rights for the Rainbow people.

    Side A is the people who are themselves lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, or Asexual. We know who we are, and it’s easy to forget that others may not have had the same experiences as us. We have many words that we know what they mean, but others outside our community may not. In short, the Rainbow people are basically like computer programmers because 90% of people have no idea what we are talking about. Also, the reason I say we in this paragraph is because I am part of the LGBTQIA community. Specifically, I am the T and the A.

    Side B are the people who happen to be Cisgender and Heterosexual. The majority of people are this way. They simply accept that if their body is male or female, then that is what they must be. They also only seek to date, marry, or have sex with someone of the opposite sex because they have never felt any attraction to the same sex. Because they have never needed to question the gender roles and stereotypes, they never needed to think about it deeply. Then, when they meet someone from the LGBTQIA community, they wonder what is wrong with them.

    The ability to understand that other people do not have access to the same information as us is called Theory of Mind. There is no easy fix for the fact that straight and gay people are not the same. However, it is still pretty easy to realize that a gay man is attracted to men just as a straight woman is. A lesbian (term for a gay woman) is attracted to women the same way a straight man is. At least parallels and comparisons can be made in this case.

    Cisgender and Transgender people are also not the same. In fact, they are more different than gay and straight people. It can also be easy to forget that being Transgender has absolutely nothing to do with sexuality at all. It is a state of mind where our brain and/or soul tell us where we fall on the gender spectrum. Because of this, it is more difficult to bridge the gap about this topic. I will, of course, do my best because this is my experience, but I also welcome the input of others who can explain it better than I can.

    But if there is any group in the whole LGBTQIA acronym that is the most misunderstood, it is the ‘I’, which stands for Intersex. Intersex people fall outside the male or female BIOLOGICALLY. Being Intersex is a fact about your physical body and is not about identity or sexual attraction. The problem is that many people do not know that Intersex people exist. Even one of my best friends told me that everyone is either male or female. But considering things like Klinefelter Syndrome (XXY chromosomes), androgen insensitivity, and those born with both a penis and a vagina, I dare anyone to decide which of the two sexes these people are.

    My statement on Intersex identity is that only the person who lives in that body can tell us who they are. For example, I have a dear friend who I admire greatly and who is intersex. She identifies as a woman and aligns with a female gender identity despite having XY chromosomes. In that regard, the same standard of self-identification applies to Intersex people just the same as it does to Transgender people. So please, don’t tell people who they are because you are not them. That is like telling a child who wants to make music that they must instead become a carpenter and that they are not allowed to play an instrument or sing.

    And finally, the Asexual community is perhaps the most controversial within the community because we often fight over two competing definitions of what Asexuality means. This topic will be covered in its entire chapter.

    I am qualified to speak from my own experience on Transgender and Asexual identity because it is my own experience. However, just because I am the author does not mean that those of L, G, B, and Q cannot contribute their own experiences. If you would like to join me in future updates to this book with personal stories or allegories that explain your experience, I can include them and give you credit.

    Remember, the goal is to build the Rainbow Bridge. I can’t do it alone. We are in this together. We can help educate the cisgender, straight people on what our words mean rather than merely calling them homophobic or transphobic and then cutting off communication.

    Also, for the record, a phobia is a fear, not hatred. Can you blame the “normal” people if they are a little bit afraid of us? After all, some of us look really strange and use big words that these people have never heard in their lives. Some of them are open to learning and will accept us, but the process of building the bridge begins with us.

  • Preface for Walking the Rainbow Bridge

    The year is 2025. Many strange things have happened this year. This year is a time of economic collapse, with rising unemployment rates and a lack of ability to communicate or listen. Many of my people have committed suicide this past year in response to the hatred they have received.

    You may wonder what it is I am talking about. I am speaking primarily about the LGBTQIA+ community and the violence and discrimination against them. In many places, it is possible to be killed for not appearing as the gender someone wants you to look or talk like. It is also possible that your family will disown you and kick you out of the house before you have graduated high school because they found out that you are attracted to someone of the same sex rather than the opposite sex.

    Transgender and gay people are not the only ones who face additional challenges. Racism also appears to be increasing or, at the very least, becoming more apparent. With the growing number of companies ending their Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion policies, people on Facebook, Reddit, Quora, and LinkedIn are asking questions about what it means.

    • Will they be fired because they are black?
    • Will they be deported to their country of origin even if they have legally immigrated to the United States?
    • Will the marriages of millions of gay, bisexual, or transgender people be no longer considered legal?

    And perhaps more importantly, how can anyone afford to live when they are losing their jobs, prices are rising, and they cannot get new jobs because the Artificial Intelligence overlords have decided their resume is not good enough to pass to a real human to read it?

    I know these thoughts may seem unrelated, but they have been on my mind lately, based on real conversations I have heard and read, both online and from coworkers at Walmart.

    These questions deserve answers, but it will not happen unless we have difficult conversations. Allow me to begin by telling you what I stand for. Look at this picture of the Progress Flag.

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    The Progress Flag is one of the most important symbols to me personally. I consider it the ultimate symbol of Diversity. The different colors and shapes represent different groups of people. One of the key interesting things is that the black and brown stripes represent “people of color”, such as those with darker skin colors.

    Skin color and/or race does not have much to do with being gay, transgender, or intersex, but what we all have in common is that our differences have been used as an excuse to exclude us from employment, voting, restrooms, marriage, and even life itself when we are murdered or sent to prison for life without having committed a crime.

    "I've paid my dues
    Time after time
    I've done my sentence
    But committed no crime" - Queen
    

    What is the solution to the hatred, misunderstanding, and violence we face? I do not have all the answers, but I want to contribute my part in beginning the conversations to educate each other on our different experiences. We are stronger together because of our Diversity.

    What we have in our society is a great divide. We seem to be on two sides of the Grand Canyon. I was thinking to myself that what we need is a bridge. And then it just so happened that I came across an article where hundreds of people lit up a bridge in rainbow colors using only flashlights.

    rainbow-bridge.

    It was at that moment that I remembered a conversation I had in a dream with Honesty the Unicorn about how a rainbow is created.


    H: Like others before you, you will speak and write about the things you have learned. In fact, even now you are typing our conversations on your computer as we speak. You can tell others what you have learned. Though others will probably call you insane or a liar, the evidence speaks for itself.

    You have the power of perseverance. If you keep on speaking, you will be heard. If you keep on seeking the truth you will find it. For he who keeps asking questions will receive the answers. He who keeps seeking will find them sooner or later, and he who knocks on enough doors will find one answered eventually. You don’t know how to give up. You have too much stallion pride for that.

    C: You’re right, Honesty. I don’t know how to give up. But where will I go? How do I know where I will be listened to and where I will find the answers?

    H: Everywhere! Go into all the world. Ask every question, knock on every door, and search everywhere that you have a chance to find the answers. Find those who do not stop you or shame you for singing, dancing, or crying. Do you see that rainbow in the sky, Chastity?

    C: Yes, how long has that been there?

    H: Since the moment we first met. In the human world, a rainbow is created when white light is reflected off of water droplets. In Animal Sanctuary, the Light of Truth reflects off the tears of those with a pure heart. By this you shall know that wherever and whenever you see a rainbow, you will know a unicorn is not very far away. For the truth is revealed in tears without a single word said. This is my promise to you, Chastity. You came here because of your tears, and you will return again, as will all those who are honest enough to cry the tears of joy and of pain. For it is as I spoke long ago, blessed are the Pure in Heart, for they shall see God.


    I ask my fellow Rainbow people to metaphorically walk the Rainbow Bridge this Pride Month of 2025 as we write, speak, and listen to what our different voices have to say.

    As for me, I will remember the Promise of the Rainbow as I was told by Honesty the Unicorn. I won’t give up, and neither should you. Please let me know if there’s anything I can do to assist you. I am just a poor transgender writer and Chess player, but I offer my skills and knowledge of computer software to anyone who has a story to tell.

  • Happy Pride Month 2025

    It has been a year since I uploaded my viral Instagram video on May 31, 2024, just before Pride month, which is June. This video was titled “Happy Pride Month 2024”. Many disturbing things were said by people who commented on it. I have also uploaded that same video to YouTube. It was only 24 seconds long and was recorded for the purpose of sending to Anastasia, who was editing a video together with short statements from the board members of the Rainbow Pro-Life Alliance.

    I just want to let my friends know that I am still alive. I also want to warn my enemies that I am stronger now. You can’t kill me even though many of you would like to. Your only chance of destroying me is if you can beat me in Chess!

    Today is June 1, 2025. A lot has happened in the past year. I managed to publish a book about Chess. I changed my program at Full Sail University to Creative Writing, and I am graduating on July 4, 2025.

    I will be sharing some of the comments I received. The reason I am sharing the comments left on my video from last year is so that you can see the reality of the hatred that a person like me deals with in daily life and also how much work remains to be done in our society when it comes to acceptance of LGBTQIA+ individuals such as myself. I will say no more from here. I will only let the comments speak for themselves.

    The Comments Section

    We met chastity once and she fart

    I really want a lobotomy

    This is what Chris Chan could have been

    Vector from Despicable me??

    No you’re a damn man

    typical walmart

    You should close your comments

    This can’t be real…this has gotta be @thebabylonbee or something

    Nice work bro. 😎

    Elite reel pull

    What has happened to this country

    Insane ass pull 😭

    I pray the you repent before you stand in front of the Lord of Heavens Armies

    Aren’t you on the SO list?

    U need Jesus bro

    We need to bring back bullying

    screaming virgin

    I heavily dislike your silly little ideology. May god bless you all

    Respect

    So many surprises here

    Absolutely mythical reel pull

    I built this fyp brick by brick

    I bet he can see sounds

    dude can you become pro toothbrush too

    I can’t believe what I’m seeing

    Kill me then yourself

    Do you know how to floss your teeth or are you too focused on telling everyone what you eat and who you sleep with?

    keep minors away from this individual.

    Average liberal

    Is there a toothbrush at the end of the rainbow?

    Check this things hard drive

    wise words 🙏🏼🙏🏼

    I thought this was a troll… was really hoping

    Jesus is king

    Not virgin by choice💀

    You need to floss your teeth

    Brush your teeth

    Hate from Texas

    Kamala’s speech writer has been found

    Bro why doesn’t Amazon have you in stock?! 🙄

    remind me in 5 years when this person is outted for being the next chris chan

    Keep this man away from schools

    Sorry to hear about your pride.

    Now tell us what your chromosomes are. I’ll wait! Bros in the women’s section sniffing panties that haven’t even been worn.

    I feel like I’ve seen house of cards more stable then this persons mental state

    When is mental health month?

    you’re a virgin, alright😂

    oh hell nah

    Bro is an elden ring boss 💀

    Hate from Michigan

    Brush them teeth

    What in the living hell are you cause you ain’t human

    What an embarrassment

    @bradders_scott

    Cosmic reel pull

    Brush your teeth and try this again

    Man’s can see the edge of the known universe with that glasses prescription

    Bro what happened to vector after despicable me💀💀

    Go play in traffic

    Bro needs therapy

    I’m not showing you my receipt

    Dude ain’t touch a toothbrush since he was straight

    Fluoride in the drinking water did this

    A lot to f 80s parents did coke

    You need help

    Needs locked up

    Such a disaster

    Why are people like this still above ground? Go back to the sewer’s

    Typa fella that eats corn on the cob the long way.

    Typa fella to like sauerkraut

    Typa fella to ask for a left handed screwdriver

    What is they/thems diet

    Floss your teeth

    smorgasbord of a person

    Virgin, most definitely.

    Fix those teeth pal

    pro life? u?

    Christ alive this isn’t a joke account, as a queer mate you need Jesus first off you’re not a she, secondly this is a joke, pride month is a joke, WE are a plague if anything, learn to accept it

    Bro is the ceo of gay

    Someone check the hard drive

    Fall in a volcano. Please

    You’re a what?

    gay

    #mentalillness

    Your parents should’ve been pro choice

    Got the London look

    Glasses lenses looking like that one dude solar death ray

    It makes sense that you work at Walmart.

    Chas-titty

    I’m shopping at target

    No…just no

    Your post had me praying for a meteor, sir.

    This dude definitely tries to get w kids

    brush ya teeth

    How did that get a job

    Chastity is the perfect name

    Respect it

    Go play in traffic

    God please help this world.

    Virgin? No doubt.

    Bring back bullying

    Thxs bro. Chastity cage tehe

    You look like you could benefit from the sun and some real butter.

    Oh my God, get some help

    What’d they do to Hank green 😭

    The unicorn told u too brush ur teeth ?

    Sending hate from Arkansas and 49 other states

    Some one check this guys computer

    Show us what you look like without glasses.

    virgin is the only word that makes sense here

    Chris chan crossed with a medieval peasant

    Rainbows and unicorns, ofc the alphabet ppl run on delusions

    kamalas only voter

    I don’t think bro chose to be a virgin 🤷

    this is satire right

    Hey Steve! You’re scaring the children

    Parents should’ve worn chastity belts

    thank you chastity white rose 👍